By Tina Johnson
COUNSELLING FOR BACHELORS PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE
COUNSELLING FOR BACHELORS PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE
Before you embark on the journey called "Marriage", below are few things you should know about women if you want to have a successful marriage.
(1) Any day you beat your wife; you have lost your dignity as a man.
(2) Cheating is not the right of a man. No one has the right to cheat. Women are not soup to be changing like rappers.
(3) Do not expect your wife to always give you SEX and therefore, learn to be God fearing, self control and disciplined. Some reasons are: Her monthly flow, stress, health challenges etc. can cause it.
(4) If you have chance, please help your wife in doing some house chores like washing, sweeping, cooking, ironing etc; it is not a sin.
(5) One day, your wife MUST run her mouth like a vehicle on the speed without a break. She will speak to you in a manner that you don't like. She may even call you all sorts of names. Just leave the environment for that moment & return later!. You know why?. Her mouth is her power.
(6) Always learn how to say: I love you, Please forgive me, I am very sorry for my actions & learn to appreciate her when she does something good.
(7) Make communication a regular thing in your marriage. Call & text always & do buy gifts for her sometimes.
(8) No woman is more beautiful than your wife. What she needs is just maintenance because good soup Na money make am.
(9) Parenting is not only your wife responsibility. Both of you are involved in their training.
(10) House wife should not be encouraged at all because the economy is hitting so hard. Allow her to find something doing no matter how small it is. Let her exercise her body & brain too.
(11) Running your marriage with the advise you gathered from restaurant/drinking place is too dangerous. Beware!
(12) Be open to your wife. Always tell her where you go and the account you operate with even if you did not tell her the amount inside. It will go along way to help in times of difficulty. Example: Sickness, accident, death.
(13) Sex before marriage is totally wrong rather be mindful of her CHARACTER. Sex can blindfold your eyes from seeing the real character.
(14) Physical outlook can deceive a lot. It can disfigure any day & any time. Open your eyes and do a background check of whom she is truly.
(15) Always pray together as a family because a family that prays together always stays together.
(16) Forgiveness and tolerance is a must in marriage.
(17) Plan yourself and give birth to the number of children that you can train. Hoping on someone to train them for you is a total waste of time.
